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Chưa nói đến việc con có hợp tác hay không, bản thân tôi tự cảm thấy có gì không ổn. Dù mớ lý thuyết nuôi con “khoa học” ở trên có logic và chặt chẽ đến đâu, nó cũng trở nên vô nghĩa khi trái tim tôi cất tiếng. Trái tim người mẹ, bản năng người mẹ bảo tôi bế con lên mà vỗ về, giữa đêm con khóc thì hãy cứ thản nhiên nghiêng người cho con bú rồi chìm vào giấc ngủ. Cứ để mọi thứ tự nhiên như hơi thở. Khi con khóc và trong đầu vang lên những lời nhắc nhở: “Để con tự xoay sở, bế ru mãi rồi sinh hư” thì cùng lúc trái tim lên tiếng: “Con đang sợ hãi và cần mình xoa dịu, bế con lên đi và hát cho con nghe, cho con biết có mẹ đang ở đây và mọi thứ đều ổn cả!”

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Làm theo bản năng người mẹ và tôi sẽ cướp đi của con cơ hội trở thành một con người mạnh mẽ, tự lập? Hay là làm theo lý trí và giả điếc với trái tim, phớt lờ một thứ gì bên trong đang giằng xé?

Càng ngày tôi càng muốn đi theo bản năng người mẹ. Nhưng có một nỗi sợ cứ kéo tôi trở lại: Nếu ngay từ đầu tôi đã thất bại trong việc dạy con cách tự ngủ, liệu tôi có thể dạy nổi kỹ năng nào cho con từ giờ về sau nữa?

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Nhưng không chỉ những ngày tháng đầu tiên đâu! Cho mãi đến tận sau này, câu chuyện “dỗ hay không dỗ” vẫn còn tiếp diễn. 

Khi con bước vào tuổi lên ba, những cơn ăn vạ lăn đùng ngã ngửa giữa chốn đông người, những ỉ ôi não nề khi con bám mẹ, phải làm sao? Chúng ta sẽ cau mày trừng mắt dọa cho con sợ, phạt con úp mặt vào tường để dạy cho con biết thế nào là kỷ luật? Hay là chúng ta sẽ yên lặng ở bên, ôm ấp vỗ về để giúp con xoa dịu mớ cảm xúc hỗn độn rồi mới nhẹ nhàng dẫn con về giới hạn, đúng sai?

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Giờ là lúc tôi ghi lại những sự thật mà tôi ước gì đã có ai nói cho tôi biết. 

Trấn an là một trong những khả năng thiên bẩm của cha mẹ khi họ có con. Và Tự nhiên thì thông minh lắm. Ông Trời ban cho ta khả năng trấn an một em bé, bởi vì đó là một điều quan trọng mà con cần ở ta. Trong một thế giới nhân văn hơn, có lẽ khả năng trấn an con cũng nên được đề cao chẳng kém gì thành công trong kinh doanh hay chiến thắng trong thế vận hội Olympic!

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Đầu tiên, ta cần cảm nhận được khi nào con cần sự vỗ về. Thường thì khi cần được trấn an nhiều nhất trẻ lại thể hiện như thể chúng muốn đẩy ta ra xa nhất: chúng khóc thét, chúng la hét, giận dữ, chống đối, cự tuyệt.

Người mẹ sẽ phải nhìn sâu hơn qua bề mặt hành vi. Họ hiểu rằng ở bên dưới bề mặt đó là nhu cầu cần được trấn an, cần được yêu thương tới mức tuyệt vọng. Hiểu được điều đó, người mẹ không vùng vằng bỏ đi mà vẫn nhẫn nại cho con sự vỗ về kể cả khi con khăng khăng cự tuyệt. Khi người ta thương thật lòng, cái tôi bỗng trở thành vô nghĩa lý.

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Việc đầu tiên tôi cần làm là lắng nghe và đáp ứng những nhu cầu của con mình. Bế con lên khi con khóc ngặt giữa đêm. Ôm con thật chặt. Bướng bỉnh đứng bên con kể cả khi con khóc òa và nói: “con ghét mẹ!”

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Lớn lên trong sự vỗ về, đứa trẻ sẽ được chuẩn bị tốt nhất trước khi ra đời: dù đối diện với điều gì thì vững vàng bên trong là một loại “vũ khí” tâm lý tinh nhuệ nhất. Cách bạn trấn an con hôm nay sẽ chính là cách con tự trấn an mình mai sau, khi bạn không còn nữa. Đơn giản bởi vì con biết rằng cơn bão sẽ qua, chỉ cần cho phép mình được nghỉ ngơi tĩnh tâm một chút. Một ngày nào đó sau một ngày mệt mỏi, con sẽ tự pha cho mình một cốc mật ong ấm, tự nấu cho mình bữa ăn ngon và nhắc mình đi ngủ sớm. Rồi mọi chuyện sẽ ổn thôi.

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